Archive for the ‘Managers Questions’ Category

My staff member is boring! What can I do?

Tuesday, April 27th, 2010

Some time ago I was asked by Colin, the Head of a large secondary school in London, to give him some advice and guidance on dealing with a number of staff performance problems. We talked about a number of issues and finally he began talking about a teacher he labelled ‘mind bogglingly boring’ Here’s how the conversation began;

 

C             Now this staff member is driving me nuts

 

J              What is she doing, or not doing, that is giving you a problem?

 

C             It’s just that she’s such a boring teacher

 

J              Give me an example?

 

C             OK. I dropped into one of her lessons this week as part of my observation schedule. Oh my goodness, I’ve never seen such a set of bored pupils in my life. Half of them were asleep, a group of them were writing SOS messages on the window (in their own blood) and one kid was trying to make an escape tunnel, using a biro     

 

J              Really?

 

C             Well no, but not far off. Now I’m guessing you’re going to say to me ‘Oh for crying out loud Colin, just sit her down and tell her she’s boring’  

 

J              Do you think that would work?

 

C             No

 

J              Me neither

 

C             Ha! I knew you wouldn’t be able to help me with this one

 

Putting aside Colin’s clear lack of confidence in my abilities (oh yeah of little faith), it’s not

uncommon for managers to decide that some performance problems are just too difficult to

address. These issues then get put in the ‘too hard tray’ and left, often to fester

                    

Of course telling someone ‘you’re a boring teacher’ or ‘the pupils find you boring’ won’t work. Feedback on personality traits or characteristics is just too hard to understand and too hard to accept (I talk about why in the blog ‘How to give positive criticism – with the focus on behaviours’ http://www.10mmt.com/how-to-give-positive-criticism-with-the-focus-on-behaviours/ ).

 

So what do you do?

 

The first step is to articulate the behaviours – not your interpretation of the results of those behaviours (as Colin had)

 

The question I asked Colin was What are you seeing the teacher doing, or not doing that has led you to label her as ‘boring’?

 

Here’s some of what he came up with;

She did not;

 

1. Make enough use of the available IT facilities – minimal use of the interactive whiteboard to show videos, on line resources etc

 

2.  Use enough research / problem solving exercises

 

3. Explain the learning intention – what she expected the pupils to be able to do as a result of the lesson

 

4. Use enough group discussion techniques

 

             

How does this help?

 

By thinking ‘behaviours’ we can now move from the highly subjective and judgemental statement / thinking

 

‘My staff member is boring’

 

To the much more objective and non judgemental statement / thinking

 

‘My observation is that my staff member is not demonstrating the use of a number of tools and techniques designed to engage the pupils’

 

Which means we can move from feeling, as Colin did, that the situation was too difficult to address – who would be prepared to tell someone they were ‘boring’, or that ‘clients find your presentations boring’? -  to seeing that when we talk behaviourally no performance issue is ‘out of bounds’

 

   

How can I learn how to motivate my staff to high performance – for free?!

Thursday, March 25th, 2010

Simple! Visit the ‘Watch Videos’ page here http://www.10mmt.com/previews/ 

 

Just click on ‘Register’ and then enter our member’s area where you can learn:

 

How to use a three step process for getting really clear on what you want from your staff

 Great for:

·         Testing the level of clarity you have with your staff (because your staff can’t give you what they don’t know you want!) 

·         Identifying why you don’t always get what you want from your staff

·         Finding information than can help you describe what you want – without reinventing the wheel

Learn this technique in the video ‘Motivating your staff with powerful performance objectives. Session One‘

 

How to hold a motivational performance review (or appraisal) meeting

Including:

·         How to put together the meeting agenda

·         How to deal with any disagreements when reviewing performance – the easy way

·         5 top tips for reviewing performance – quick and easy ways to improve your review meetings 

·         Using ‘dual value’ for selecting development activities

Learn this in the video ‘Motivating your staff by monitoring and reviewing performance. Session Three

 

How to prepare to give positive criticism

Including:

·         Exploring the difference between personality traits and behaviours – and why this is important

·         Understanding the difference between facts and assumptions

·         How an iceberg can show us why giving criticism is such a challenge – and what to do to meet this challenge

·         How to describe the criticism in clear, objective, non-judgemental language so that it is easy to understand and easy to accept 

Learn this in the video ‘Motivating your staff to improve their performance with positive criticism. Session One’

 

 

 

Register today at the ‘Watch Videos’ page here http://www.10mmt.com/previews/then just ’click and learn’! 

 

 

Why don’t managers get more feedback on their management style?

Tuesday, January 26th, 2010

Some years ago I worked with the MD of a commercial publishing business. I had spent a day facilitating a business planning session with him and his senior management team. At the very end of the day, and apropos of nothing as far as I could see, he did the following;

1. pushed back his chair onto two legs, opened his own legs thereby elevating his crotch area to roughly the eye level of his team sitting opposite (I know this sounds unlikely, but he managed it)

2.  held out his arms and made ‘come on’ gestures with his hands (hold arms straight out, palms upwards, and flex fingers repeatedly towards palms – give it a try and you’ll see what I mean), frowned and then said

3. ‘feedback, now, from you to me. Tell me what you think of me’

Stunned silence

After the senior management team (sans delivery of feedback) had left, he said to me

4. ‘D’you know. That always happens. Why don’t people ever want to give feedback to their managers?’    

What’s the problem?

a) If you’ve managed to visualise the body language from my description, you’ll have noticed some pretty obvious lack of congruence between that body language and the verbal message. Clearly, there’s little point asking for feedback if your body language is screaming ‘don’t tell me, don’t tell me, I don’t want to know’

b)  The ‘what do you think of me’ question is just too tough. With a question like this you are asking for feedback on yourself – your characteristics and personality. The ‘what do you think of me as your manager’ is a little better, but not much. Most people find it difficult to give this type of feedback because it’s just too personal

So how can I ask for feedback on my management style?

The answer is, make is easy (or at least easier) by making the question ‘low risk’. You do this by asking for feedback on your behaviours – what you do, not who you are. Here’s a really neat way to ask for feedback from your staff;

‘I’d really appreciate some feedback on the way I’m managing you. So, is there anything I could do differently that would be helpful to you?’

Not only are you asking here for behavioural feedback, you’re asking for a way forward by asking what they would like to be ‘different’

And, of course, you’ll be using congruent body language because you’ll be genuinely interested in the response

 

Joan Henshaw is the author and presenter of the video management training series ‘The 10 Minute Management Toolkit’ – the flexible, cost effective and time effective way to help managers learn how to motivate their staff to high performance. Want to learn more about how to motivate staff to high performance? Watch videos and claim your free e-book at http://www.10mmt.com